Ask interview questions

Asking questions during the interview is the interviewer’s job only. That’s a myth; you get to answer all questions you like during interview. However, wait till the end and beware that you will receive more questions. You have the right to decide if the company you are applying for is good enough or not, getting a graduate career requires you to be careful of where you want to start.

Of course, you need to ask questions that are related to the company. Most interviewers will ask you if there is any question for them and you should prepare some question. Asking questions show your interest in working for the company and that you have good knowledge about the company profiles but you need to know more.

You can ask about the nature of your potential graduate job, how is the workday, responsibilities of the perfect candidate, opportunities for promotion and how long do you need to stay in the company before receiving promotion, and what are the measures used to assess employees performance. These questions might differ between different industries and you can change them with more relevant ones.

You can also ask the human resources manager about training opportunities provided to their employees, what incentives to encourage more productivity, and what is their position from employers who want to continue learning.

Before leaving the interview you should ask about any questions or clarification the interviewers might still need from you. Ask about the next step of the interview process and when it is expected to hear from them. You can also ask about your position among other candidates and if they have specific recommendation for you to take advantage from.

You need to be very attentive during the whole interview and particularly when you ask questions. Most interviewees like to talk more to impress their interviewers with their knowledge and skills that they forget to listen to questions attentively. If you don’t understand one of the interview questions or answers, don’t rush for an answer that can be totally not related to the question. Instead, ask the interviewer to repeat what he or she said or to rephrase it, without listening and comprehending well you won’t be able to provide a proper answer.

Prepare all questions that you have in mind about the company profiles and requirements for the company. Don’t forget to thank your interviewers for listening to your answers and answering your questions.

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Weekly horoscope-Zodiac by Zodiac

CAPRICORN

The current lunar cycle, which belongs to your sign this week, comes with, stimulating growth and progress, which is tied to recognition of your responsibilities. This is reflected in your personal and professional arena also. This week we also have a ticket on the planet that symbolizes intelligence, communication skills and expression. Mercury, messenger of the gods, which acts in Capricorn, indicates thoughts toward achieving your goals.

AQUARIUS

Aquarius, known to experience the moment of introspection, contemplation, a kind of synthesis of everything we experienced over the past few months. It is therefore a moment that must have time for you to rest, reflect, have contact with nature, and develop sensitivity, spirituality, in order to balance the inside. But this can also be a time when you flourish in a particular project, which can be connected to the professional area. Be aware that completion of the cycle and you has the learning so important this time.

PISCES

Get to work, Pisces, this is a busy time, perception of your responsibilities, duties and demands and how they relate to certain persons, groups, teams or institutions. While many people are on vacation at this time, resting, the mood of Capricorn lunation indicates that this is a very important time to work, to understand the responsibilities and achieve your objectives. Be aware of who are the people with whom you will achieve these purposes.

Any adept astrologer can make predictions on the following:

Month Wise Analysis For The Year 2011

Planetary Positions And Their Effects In The Year 2011

Your Career In 2011

Financial Prospects In 2011

Relationships In 2011

Level Of Collection Of Money In Your Life

Age Up To/Beyond Which Your Finances Will Be Stable

Areas From Where Money Can Be Brought In

Success In Investments

Any Combination/Habits That Make Money Issues Negative For You

Periods Of Highs And Lows

Most Appropriate Ways To Bring In Profit (Business/Job Etc)

Any Bad Combination Of Planets Arresting Your Monetary Success

 

We have with us most experienced of the astrologers who have gone through thousands of horoscopes collectively before making any predictions for you. Check us out and explore yourself at Astrology predictions 2011. To directly get into the yearly astrology section click here 2011 yearly horoscope

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Why Karma Does NOT Exist

There is nothing so interesting as toppling icons and the windmill I want to tilt at today is Karma.


Karma is the “cosmic bitch slap” born of the belief that all of the universe is cause and effect.


Another factor that influences people to believe in Karma is they find it almost impossible to justify why bad things happen to good people and why bad people seem to be the ones who get rich, get laid and get even.


Add to the mix an upbringing of fear and guilt and just about anyone will find themselves longing for a universe in which karma is the rule like it were a life raft for our sanity.


The fact is that with all of that behind us Karma is the glue we use to not go crazy and admit what seems to obvious:


* Some people do get away with murder.

* Some children suffer for no reason.

* The guys who go after what they want, sometimes at the cost of others, often are the ones who get rich, get laid and get even.


As an exercise in mental flexibility (and some would say blasphemy) let’s examine the Karma Myth with a very critical eye. If this makes you too uncomfortable you’re encouraged to stop reading ant try to forget anything that is written here.


Argument 1 – Time


Among the questions I want to pose are “Is ALL the universe limited to cause and effect?”


The answer on one level is yes. On another level the answer is not so clear. Why? Because cause and effect is a result of the awareness of time (i.e., cause is followed by effect) and none of that can make sense when time is removed from the equation.


A clearer picture of this argument emerges when we recognize that time itself is perceived only by the nervous system and the nervous system is a result of having a body. Absent of the body and nervous system there is no ability to perceive time. Without time there is no more cause and effect and


it is possible to experience everything as a single event.


On this “higher” perception absent the creation of time and therefore cause and effect and the concept of Karma is completely absent.


Argument 2 – Good and Evil


The belief in Good and Evil is a central support pillar for the Karma Myth. If someone does something that we judge as bad we want to know that we are compensated by them “having bad karma”. Of course this does not address the fact that they believe they are doing good and that they will be rewarded for their good acts with good Karma.


The absolute of Good and Evil we find is much more subjective than we want to believe.


Argument 3 – The Origin


Just because you read it in a book or heard it from your parents or religious leader does not make it true… unless of course you have been trained to never question authority.


Argument 4 – Benefits


As much as one MIGHT think that believing in Karma is good there are reasons that believing the opposite is just as good. Shocking thought, isn’t it, but who likes to be motivated by fear to do the “right” thing?


Argument 5 – The Intention


Why would someone create Karma? One reason is to control people to do the right thing out of fear. There are other reasons if you think about them.


Argument 6 – Counter Evidence


As much as you hear about the bad guys that get caught how many never get caught? Some? Many? Most?


On that note bad things happen to good people and bad people often prosper. We fall back on the invisible Karma as a way of hoping that things end up right.


So what does a person do without the “Karma crutch” to guide their actions?


The answers are many.


* One could as as if Karma were real to guide their actions.


* One could do whatever they damn well want to do.


* One could do whatever they damn well want but do it with the awareness that a portion of their life *is* living in the cause and effect world and if they do something illegal it is likely to have some consequences. This does not prove the existence of Karma just the need to do some good planning.


The absence of Karma could be liberating or a burden. It can liberate one to live free of guilt and fear but it can burden one with REAL responsibility; the responsibility to be 100% in control of their life.


JK Ellis

Matchmaker – Are You Moving Too Fast?

So you’re in a dating relationship and you think you have found the right person and you’re excited and you are ready to give this relationship a good try and don’t want it to fail. So what’s a good way for this relationship to fail…if you are moving too fast. The same matchmaker skills that you utilized to get this person to fall in love with you and want to date you, you will need to continue with utilizing throughout the life of your relationship.

You don’t have any matchmaker skills, you say; it was just pure luck that you got together with this person. Well, if that’s the case, then pay attention and learn what not to do in a relationship. This factor is mainly for the ladies. You don’t want to move too fast in the dating relationship and start discussing topics like marriage and kids because the minute that you do that, your Romeo is going to leaving you standing at the balcony alone and you really will be saying, “O Romeo, Romeo, wherefore art thou Romeo?” You won’t know where he is because he’ll be hiding from you. Not all guys are afraid of commitment, but most of them need time with this facet of the relationship because they definitely don’t want to be pushed into anything that they are not ready for yet.

Now on to the guys; don’t rush the physical intimacy. Women are not afraid of physical intimacy and many women do participate in casual relationships. However, in general, women need to feel emotionally connected to their men and have time invested in the relationship before they commit to furthering the physical intimacy in the relationship. Now guys, we all know that this is not the case with you and that physical intimacy is high on your list of needs in a relationship and when you are in a committed relationship with a woman, the act of physical relations for you is your way of expressing your love for her. Of course, that may be hard for some women to believe or comprehend, but that is how you guys show love in a committed relationship. When it comes to physical love in a casual relationship, well, that falls more into the category of lust.

Now when it comes to commitment, both sexes can be culprits. There are men who don’t want to commit too easily to a relationship and there are women who don’t either. Typically, women like to commit more quickly then men, but those women don’t usually commit during the initial dating stages because they need to know that the man they are with is a good guy and not some psycho. By the time the woman is ready to commit, the man is warming up, but he is not always ready yet at that time. The general rule of thumb in regard to your matchmaker efforts is not to force your partner to commit to you.

If you try to force someone to do something, he or she will either rebel and get angry and you could lose this person or she or she will commit, but reluctantly just because he or she does not like conflict and is not ready yet to voice a differing opinion on the subject. Of course, if you are investing years into a relationship and your partner does not want to commit then there is a problem and you need to discuss the future of your relationship because you can’t wait around forever for a commitment. But hold off on forcing a commitment during the initial dating and interim dating stages.

Allen Tane is an experienced writer on the professional singles market and matchmaker dating industry. He has been writing for quite a while and has had countless articles published. Some of Allen’s most favorite topics to write on include single professionals over 30, mature professional singles, relationships, and matchmaker. Allen’s articles are well written and memorable. They are especially great for anyone looking to start dating and still keep up with their daily activities.

Including References On Your Resume

You might be working at a particular place for some time; such as, a printing press, handling prepress equipment and CTP. Even though you would have enjoyed your work experience, after spending some years’ time, you might become tired of your job. This is when you decide to move to a new employment.

When you are changing your job, you need to build up a strong resume. Most people, when upgrading their resume for a new job, do not pay much attention to references. However, they make up an important part of your job profile.

Not all jobs will need references; especially if you are considering reference letters. Because they can be written by anyone, they are not an authentic proof of your past credibility or performance. Instead, many potential employers will be looking for a live and self talking witness who can acknowledge your work experience.

Never include the names or contact numbers on the resume itself. On the job profile only a sentence saying “references available upon request” will be enough. If the employers require them, they will request you for them. You should not provide them on your own. If they do, you should write the names and contact numbers on a separate sheet of paper. Four to five references will be sufficient.

When you are choosing the references, you need to select the people wisely. Mostly potential employers will be looking for professional references rather than personal ones. You can include references of your co-workers. However, more impressive ones would be of the people who have played a supervisory role in your career.

Moreover, you should not choose a particular reference just because the designation looks impressive, or just because the person is your friend. You need to find people who have been associated with your work, have supervised you, and know your capabilities, strengths and weaknesses well.

Before including peoples’ names and numbers, make sure you take their consent. Ask them if they are fine with you including their names in the references. Many a times, people would overlook this and end up being embarrassed later.

You should also know the person well. You are adding his/her reference in your job profile, now you must also know him/her personally. Being friendly with this person will mean that you are adding a positive reference to your resume.

It might be an embarrassing situation to have your new to-be employer call one of the references, and become frustrated because the person was not available. To avoid such an awkward situation, make sure you give updated information. You must give current email addresses and numbers presently in use.

Networking is an important task. After you have made the references available, do not give up on networking. You never know when you might need references again. Make sure you stay in touch, to give and have the latest updates.

Changing your job might prove to be helpful if you are looking for a change. Your work experience and credibility might also be appreciating. Make sure you find the right people to prove this acknowledgement to your new boss to-be.

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Apology words / relationship

There are a lot of instances where people make mistakes. Sometimes these mistakes can affect others and logical reasoning can point the blame on you. With no place to run or hide you are given the choice to keep making excuses or do the right thing and make an apology letter.

It doesn’t matter how severe your mistake was, the fact is you are responsible and you know it. Some may not have the guts to face the ones affected and look straight into their eyes and say sorry while others simply end up speechless. If you fall into any of those categories, then maybe you should let the pen and paper do the talking. Forget using the computer and typing it because a real sincere apology letter is written by hand.

Here are some things to know how to write an apology letter for any occasion.

Be Respectful

If you want to gain the person’s respect, you need to do the first move. Start out with a friendly greeting and make sure you address his or her name with proper spelling. A simple mess up can ruin the whole letter and possibly your chances of ever apologizing again.

Be Sincere

If you got plans to reason out so you can dodge, then you aren’t sorry at all! Keep it short and sweet and admit your wrongdoings with a small explanation why things turned out that way. Take note, this is different than making excuses. You don’t want to sound too defensive because that goes against the entire idea of being sorry in the first place.

Look Forward

What is done is done so bring forth some possibilities to go from there. You can start out by vowing never to commit that particular offense again and ask nicely to move on with things. Understand that this may take time especially if the damage is beyond repair. Still a well-written and sincere apology letter can lessen the blow and grant new chances.

Read It Again

Never ever send or give the letter once you are finished. Try to read it yourself and pretend that you are the one affected. See if you can grasp the message of your own words and make any adjustments if necessary. Try to understand how your reader will feel and fine-tune your message so you can hit all the right notes in restoring his or her mood. Don’t forget to check for grammar and spelling too.

There is nothing wrong in writing an apology letter if you mean every word you say. If that doesn’t fix things, either he or she is too affected or don’t have the energy for forgiveness. Don’t be discouraged and give it some time. What matters is you put your own efforts in composing a letter that is asking for forgiveness.

Once the person acknowledges your letter, give yourself a pat on the back and make sure you don’t commit the same mistake again. Apology letters don’t work well if overused so make the most out of them and always stand up to your writings. This aritlce is posted on 100 Questions Before Marriage.com, website were many important topics are posted. Please feel free to visit our unique quality content blog for a lot of questions to ask your boyfriend/girlfriend or how to write apology letter.

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Success oriented web design

There are number of websites available in the market which appears to be unique and features the latest styles in designing. They fall short totally in designing the functionality of the website. Designing tendencies are essentially simple as they provide you with innovative and new strategies to execute the designs. The designs have to be smart and centered as per the objective of the company. Innovative website design and strong functionality takes time and efforts to create balance between the two. The tension can be created if any one of the two gets dominated by either value, it would make changes to the final results. Creating an excellent web design is an art and happens when the style and the written content are flawless. It is simple to find out information in a good website design. The content of the site makes you wish to come back over and over again. The most important thing is that the excellent website provides trustworthiness in the minds of the visitors towards the company. It is very crucial to promote your brand on the web, the traditional methods of marketing and advertising have become outdated and therefore the web is taken more into consideration in almost every company. With more and more competitors, it has become important to possess a website that converts the visitors into customers. It can be very advantageous thus you need to measure and enhance the functionality, navigation, conversion rates, and search engine friendliness of the website.

Powerful and search engine optimized content is really important, most of the websites stay up to date on search engine and don’t possess a talented content writer of the company. As the main requirement in the content is having an excellent customer support. If the design you possess is excellent, the content is amazing, but when the visitors deal with your business, they fail to find it interesting and thus loose customers. There can be various other fail factors, for which there is no fast solution. Each element in website design requires equal consideration. First of all it is essential to understand the objective of your website and choose the target audience. Navigation and functionality are the most crucial component of any web design. The tabs could be used for navigation in the site, and you need to make sure that whatever type of navigation you select in your website should follow on the whole website. Those having a large website, which is nicely grouped, you can use the same as great advantage.

SEO is an activity carried out to increase the real time traffic towards the website. It is a process of increasing the back links to the website and getting top ranks over the search engines like Google, yahoo, msn etc. A lot of activities are carried out in this process; they are keyword optimization, article submission, directory submission, forum posting, social media optimization, social media marketing and many more. It is necessary to optimize a website design to obtain organic traffic towards the website.

Creating an excellent web design is an art and happens when the style and the written content are flawless. It is simple to find out information in a good website design .

Questions to Ask Yourself About Saving a Relationship

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Ending a relationship is tough for everyone involved. More often than not you will wish that you were still in a relationship. This can lead to a person wanting to repair split up. Before you do this there are a few questions to ask yourself about saving the relationship to see if it is worth doing.

Start with asking yourself – do you enjoy being with each other? Did you really enjoy the company of your ex? Or was it something that had become habitual and not really much for many more? Be honest when you answer these questions and you will find that they help you an awful lot.

Also ask yourself whether you and your ex-partner showed affection when you were with each other. If there was little affection in your relationship is it really worth going back to it?

Another important factor of a relationship is being there for your partner. Have you gone through difficult times with each other and come out the of the side? If you can answer yes to this you might have a relationship that is worth saving. Everyone needs to feel as though they can rely on their partner if you can’t there is something wrong.

Now, think about whether or not you were good sexually together or not. You might feel as though this is a little bit of a personal question, is still very important. Satisfying each other sexually is one of the foundations for a good relationship -so think about this one for awhile.

So spend some time really thinking about these questions about saving a relationship. You never know they could help you to work out if you have something that was worth fighting for. Or you might realize that you are better off by yourself, either way you have done the right thing.

Listen: You CAN save your relationship for good – and it’s a lot easier than you think, with the right methods. Make this the day you decide to fight for what you’ve lost, so you can finally be happy again!

Answering Top 3 Relationship Questions!

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Subliminal Videos Three Ways They Can Help Solve Relationship Problems

Do all your relationships seem to fail? And with each failed relationship, does it get harder and harder to make the next one work? Most times, the problem is not with the relationship itself. Its not even with the people who keep on coming and going into your life. Its not about being with the wrong guys all the time, and not being able to find the right partner.

If youre the one who cant seem to stay in one relationship, then your track record shows that the problem lies with you.

That sounds ominous, right? Does it mean you wont be able to find a happy relationship anymore?

Of course not!

A daily dose of subliminal videos can help you overcome the many problems that are making it hard for you to stay in a relationship. Here are the three major ways through which subliminal videos can help you achieve success in your future relationship:

1. Remove negative feelings caused by past experiences. Every failed relationship leaves scars, like bitterness, lessons that are taken the hard and negative way, self doubt, and insecurities.

Sometimes, you also think that what caused the past relationship to fail will also be a problem with your new relationship, which is not always true because the person youre with is already different. Thus, each relationship should begin with a clean slate. Whatever lessons you learned with the past relationship wont necessarily apply to the new relationship.

Complete healing, which includes wiping out negative feelings and beliefs from the subconscious, can only happen through subliminal reprogramming of the mind.

2. Remove fear and doubt. The problem is, people rarely get completely healed from their past relationships. Time does not always heal, contrary to popular belief. That saying forgot to entertain the fact that the subconscious is like a sponge, and it records everything with sheer power and resilience.

Even if the memories fade, the fear and doubt that they may have caused can linger in the mind for a long time. Most times, you wont even notice yourself getting mad at a new partner because you think hes doing something an old partner did.

In this aspect, only subliminal programming can help.

3. Build more confidence and happiness with oneself. One common problem in relationships is co-dependency, or how a person disappears into the person he or she is with. This happens when you start to depend on your partner for most part of your life, and you cant seem to be happy without his/her approval.

Sure, in a relationship, there should be a mutual need, but there is a point when this becomes unhealthy. Each person in a relationship should still have his/her own personality. He should still be able to make his own decisions and act on his own free will, without needing approval or go signals from the other person.

For this, you need subliminal videos that flash messages such as:

I am worthwhile and intelligent.
I am independent.
My need is healthy.
I can stand on my own.
I am aware of my own strengths.

The tendency to become co-dependent is strongest in people who are insecure, not confident and satisfied with themselves, and those who have poor self-image. Subliminal messages such as those given above can help turn a negative self-image around and thus make a person happier in himself/herself. This way, there would be no pressure or missed expectations from both sides.

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Set Dating Goals

In order to achieve anything, you have to set goals. This is also the case when it comes to dating and to getting the kind of girl or girls that you want. You begin by defining long term goals as to what you want in a relationship and in the kind of women that you want in your life. Get out a piece of paper or laptop and write down the kind of relationship(s) that you want. Do you see yourself dating a number of girls or do you see yourself finding that specific someone. Perhaps you want to date a number of women for a while but eventually you want to have a specific woman to love and be with.

This brings up the point that you must also define and begin to implement your short term goals. If for example you want to date a number of women and be free and single for a while before you set your sights on settling down with one great girl, then this is what your short term goals are all about. Write down what it is that you want in the next few weeks or months. Get as specific as you can, going so far as to define detailed descriptions of the kind of women that you want to meet and how many. This can be anything from physical characteristics to personality, etc. Get as precise as you can.

Your long term goals are done along the same lines. Just try to imagine what it is that you want later in your life. You don’t have to settle down with one girl, that’s just my example. Look for the highest good or yourself. When you have defined this goal in your head, I suggest that you write this goal down just like you did with your short term one.

Well thought out goals are sort of like the road that will lead you to the success that you want. The more specific that you can be about what you want, and the better that you are at defining these goals then the easier that it will be for you to realize your success. You can have the kind of relationship(s) that you want; all you have to do is to set goals.

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Sending Dirty Pictures

With the development in technology of mobile phones and the internet a new phenomenon occurred in the late 90s in relationships, it is of course dirty pictures. The dirty picture phenomenon has given the world a huge amount of ideas, and for those who are in relationships given them a huge amount of fun and satisfaction.

If you think that your life could be a lot more entertaining with a few extra pictures in your life then it will give you a great time. If you have a girlfriend already then obviously your situation is going to be a lot easier, but if you don’t then singles can also have a lot of fun with this sort of thing.

Sending pictures at work or when you’re out with your friends is a saucy tactic; you can give yourself a great shot in the arm in terms of your libido. The excitement of receiving a dirty photo far outweighs the risk. And if it is not taken out of context then there are no problems with this sort of thing, so just keep snapping away.

The way in which it can grip a relationship is like no other and there comes a time in every relationship when it is necessary for you to spice it up. If you believe you can get the best out of your relationship by doing this sort of thing then there is no harm in trying it, and not just that but the surprise is also a huge turn on.

Spontaneity and excitement are what relationships should be all about, they keep the relationship going, and keep the juice in the relationship. Focus and attention are the two things that women want more than anything; they want to know that their man is focused solely on them and that his persistence in loving them is a huge turn on.

So why not be the best man for her, focus on her, keep her attention on her and you will make the most out of all of your relationship. Is there any way in which the dirty picture can be abused? Well like anything of course there is room for abuse, but if you do not send it to anyone you shouldn’t, or not send it at inappropriate times then you will be absolutely fine.

So get sending those dirty pictures, steam up your windows.

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about pick up artist techniques and pick up lines to get girls.

 

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Dealing with Disappointments Emerging from Expectations in a Romantic Relationship

 

A romantic relationship at its initial stage is no less than a fancy dream. The problem begins when the two individuals secretly starts demanding the mutual fulfillment of expectations. However, when the expectations are not met, it leads to disappointments and the relationship starts getting off-track. The relationship experts are of the belief that there are three main culprits that lead to such situations:

Two individuals enter a romantic relationship without discussing their expectations and desires.
It is one’s own psyche that compels him or her to expect and the other partner has little to do with.
Unclear communication and hesitation to convey desires between the partners make the situation worse.

 

In case you are too stern about the execution of your expectations, you should better act as a deal breaker. For this, you should have the talent to end the relationship that doesn’t satisfy your expectations and move on. On the contrary, if you want to stick to the relationship, you should act according to the following relationship advices to deal with the disappointments.

 

Honest Evaluation: An honest evaluation of the bond you share with your partner should help you disperse the frustration. Count your expectations as illusions that need to be broken in order to see your relationship in the better light. There must be many other ways in which your partner must be showcasing his love and affection and those should matter the most.

 

Avoid Unrealistic Expectations: Don’t anticipate too much and expect only possible expectations to be fulfilled. Be optimist about your romantic bond and don’t let unreal desires become the reason for the damage.

 

Don’t Hope for Change: Most of the individuals who are romantically involved keep on living with hope that their partners will change one day. Expecting your expectations to get fulfilled one day will keep on adding to your expectations. Live in present and enjoy the way you are receiving the returns from the romance.

 

Nobody Is Mind Reader: It is usual for people to expect proofs of love from their partners. Remember that nobody is born to be a mind reader. He or she may fulfill few of your expectations, but don’t expect it to happen each and every time.

 

Communicate Your Desires: Most importantly, maintain a healthy communication with your partner, as it will help him have the right idea of your desires. Don’t keep secret or hidden agendas and don’t wish to always receive surprises from your partner. Sometimes, you may have to come forward to express your wants and your partner will appreciate it.

 

Expecting your beloved to be happy, sad or emotional as per your standards or ideas will never let you out of the disappointments. Give your relationship the required space and time to get enriched with love and to become highly authentic. 

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Interview Questions

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a2zinterviewquestions.com is an unique site. First of its kind encrypted with a motto to post as many interview questions as possible along with answers that were asked in various interviews and expected questions which may be asked in interviews, to help the needy young generation who are going to face interviews. This site will enlighten the nature and scope of interview questions that will be asked in various interviews, keeping in view the present interviews scenario.

Many eminent personalities from all walks of life have contributed a lot in posting interview questions and answers relating to all categories viz., Software, Sciences, Engineering, Management, Accounting, Government & Private Sector and what not every branch has been covered in this site.

The viewers can also add questions and answers that they have faced in interviews, to share their interview experience and knowledge with the upcoming young generation.

This is a show-and-tell question. Talk about your best skills, whip out your e-portfolio (or print portfolio) and display the evidence of all your hard work. Here you must talk about your strengths that reconcile with the demands of the current job. As far as weaknesses go, you have to be honest and because if the employer gets the feeling you’re hiding something, he won’t hire you. However, after describing a weakness, you should also add how you can overcome adversity and convert it into opportunity.

During interviews we ask all candidates several catagory job interview questions (also known as situational interview questions). You’ll not want to miss this section if you’re hoping to be ahead of the game.

Though it may seem obvious, some people forget that the sole purpose of submitting an employment application form is to win you a job interview. Without an interview it is highly unlikely you will get the job!

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What is a Juggalo? Violent J and Shaggy 2 Dope Explain Through Lyrics

Everybody and their mother has their own answer to the question, what is a Juggalo? Some are favorable, others unfavorable, but what matters most is that between Juggalos themselves, they are family. Of course, the genre of horror rap inspires a lot of passion in its fans, but none are quite like Juggalos, the fans of Insane Clown Posse.

It comes as no surprise that ICP members Violent J Shaggy 2 Dope are the biggest Juggalo fans in the world; after all they did pretty much invent the horror rap superfan group. With that said, how would Violent J and Shaggy 2 Dope define Juggalo? Fittingly enough, they’ve written a song to answer that question, called “What is a Juggalo?”

As the lyrics copied below will iterate, a Juggalo is certainly a character, if nothing else. Yes, on the surface a Juggalo is the same that we all know them to be today: interested in horror rap, ICP superfan, and if female, probably enamored with Shaggy 2 Dope. Let’s take a look and see how Juggalos are viewed through the eyes of Shaggy 2 Dope and Violent J in the first two verses of the “What is a Juggalo” lyrics below:

[Violent J]

What is a Juggalo

Let me think for a second

Oh, he gets butt-naked

And then he walks through the streets

Winking at the freaks

With a two-liter stuck in his butt-cheeks

 

[Shaggy 2 Dope]

What is a Juggalo?

He just don’t care

He might try to put a weave

In his nut hair

Cuz he could give a fuck less

What a bitch thinks

He tell her that her butt stinks

And all that

There are more verses, but these two introductory verses get the point across. So if you weren’t familiar with ICP or horror rap at all, had no idea who Shaggy 2 Dope is, and just wanted to know the answer to your question of what is a Juggalo, these lyrics might not appear the best place to start. You’d think they were satirical at best, and that maybe horror rap was a funny genre that Shaggy 2 Dope and violent J were experts in. You would be far from the truth.

While these lyrics appear to be two musicians (Shaggy 2 Dope and Violent J) poking fun at their own horror rap fans and nothing else, what they’re actually doing is cementing the artist-fan bond through these words. Juggalos take pride in being considered vile by the rest of society, and to hear Shaggy 2 Dope and Violent J rap the lyrics to “what is a Juggalo” only furthers that sense of exclusion from normalized folks.

Also, taking these rhymes as evidence that horror rap is a genre not to be taken seriously would be misguided. Most horror rap songs deal with very heavy topics like suicide, murder, and other morbid fields, so this song is an anomaly. And the “What is a Juggalo” lyrics above cannot be taken to exacting lengths when actually trying to answer the question, what is a Juggalo.

Violent J and Shaggy 2 Dope, the duo that forms horror rap group Insane Clown Posse, explains what is a Juggalo in their song, “What is a Juggalo?”. To learn more about these horror rap artists and their fans, please visit http://insaneclownposse.com.

Leather Jackets VS Cotton Jackets

What else can create a better impression than good clothes? That’s why it is said first impression is the last impression, and many agree with it. It’s the clothes that define a person’s style statement and his personality as well. If a person wear a stylish outfits and has a standard which every one admires by peers. Fashionable cloths which are very well functional are extreme hard to come across. It’s the jacket which have remain in fashion even after ages specially leather jacket.

Leather is much more durable and easy to maintain and jacket made from it gives a cool look.  It was in the beginning of 20th century that military official and aviators used to wear leather bomber jacket. Jacket gain its popularity after the movie Indiana Jones, in which Harrison ford carried them effortlessly and stylish.

Leather jacket are usually associated with rock stars, bikers police officer and aviators. As of now the trend has change immensely. Youngster  prefer leather jacket over cotton jacket as cotton one are much casual and lack style, and required much maintenance as compared to leather . Cotton jacket has various colors as compared to that of leather jacket brown and black. Black and brown leather goes on almost everything and still look chic. Wear as in cotton one you have to buy various color to match it with rest of your color, that which turn off the cotton one in front of leather.

Both men and women dress to impress. Leather jacket gives men more rough and tougher look, which comparatively attracts the women around. Leather looks more chic as compared to shabby looks of cottons. Leather blazers are available in various styles while the cotton one do not have much style. You can wear leather jacket throughout year wear as the cotton one cannot be worn throughout the year.

Men just look super sexy in leather. You always see men in leather, anywhere you go with a perfect shoe that will flatter men leather jacket. Think of it as an investment as these jackets aren’t cheap. It will last forever, well almost forever, if you take care of it that the greatest quality about a leather jacket. It makes a little more sense to spend a few extra dollars and but good quality, when you are assured you can get years and years of wear out of a piece of clothing

Jeff Smith is a fashion designer at LeatherNXG. Being a fashion profession i understands the nuances of fashion industry like a pro, as my interests have always laid in fashion and shopping. Leather apparels like leather jackets, blazers and bombers are her forte and hence, i joined this industry for taking places. Coupled with impeccable knowledge of leather, The passion for writing has got me online to serve people who wish to know more and more about this adventurous material. as leather product and apparial has major demends in the market. jeff smith on personal level guide you with all the details and quality about the leather jacket.

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Enjoying Healthy Relationships Through Yoga Meditation

We all know that the practice of yoga meditation can benefit us in, both the physical and the mental disciplines. And such practices have grown so vast that it has braved the test of time. A classic, so to speak.And healthy relationships through yoga meditation is achievable. And the practice of such does not only limit with meditations or flexibility, it also helps its practitioners in achieving a healthy relationship. As you practice yoga meditation, you learn how to respect your body. You learn the importance of being fit and enjoy its benefits. With this, one learns the importance of Respect, which is very vital in a healthy Relationship.

This word here is an important factor, an important key to the success of a relationship. With yoga meditation, one learns flexibility. First this term would only refer to the physical aspect. But later as the yoga meditation practitioner progresses, he slowly understands the meaning of his activity beyond its physical aspect alone. He learns that he can apply what he has learned not only in its exercise state but also in the life as well. Flexibility now becomes an applied character. So the practitioner now has a broader sense of understanding and is now capable of adjusting well, both in a crowd or in a relationship as well.

In here the yoga practitioner learns RESPECT! During the practice of yoga, one develops Mind Power! A key ingredient, to better equip a person in his/her journey through life. In here one learns how to cope, adjust and even know when to fight back in facing the challenges in life. In the relationships point of view, a yoga practitioner can apply the concept of Mind Power, by showing to his/her partner that he/she knows how to control his/her emotions, as well as the yoga practitioner knows when will be the proper time to react to a certain situation. In the practice of yoga meditation, one learns the concept of fulfillment or shared happiness as a goal, and this can be learned through shared love and thoughtfulness.

All these are basic elements needed in a relationship. These are basic elements but vitally important as well. Imagine a relationship without thoughtfulness and shared love, it’s like a house built beside a riverbank. A relationship bound to be doomed. But a healthy relationship built on strong and sturdy grounds of shared love, thoughtfulness and respect is like a house built with strong foundations and elevated grounds. In here the yoga practitioner applies the concept of COMMITMENT! Balance is another factor taught in Yoga Meditation, which is very beneficial in a sound and healthy relationship. In here the practitioner knows how to weigh situations and decide wisely as well.

This concept lies in the aspect of “a balanced mind, leads to emotional and physical control as well.” Your level of Awareness also enhances. A yoga practitioner here begins proper control of his well being and his partner. As a result your partner’s level of Trust to you strengthens and thus you gain Respect and later Commitment begins. These three bonded together as one is a powerful foundation needed to build a strong and healthy relationship. These can all be learned in the practice of yoga.

The author of this article Rose Windale is a Health and Wellness Coach who has been successful with several natural health programs for many years. Rose decided to share her knowledge and tips through her website http://www.healthzine.org. You can sign up for her free newsletter and enjoy a healthy and happy life.

Customer Oriented

When going to the grocery, a restaurant or any other kinds of stores, one thing that a customer usually remembers is how the manager or the store crew treats him or her. They would always recall how accommodating the staff and the manager was and how they made him feel that he is very important for the business and thats what makes you come back more often and avail of their product.

That is how I felt when I purchased Dan Penas Quantum Leap Advantage Methodology Mega Pack. Upon purchasing and trying out the different high-quality materials in the pack, I was thankful that Mr. Dan Pena thought about reaching to his customers and filling out what they need. He was not the ordinary businessman who would just sell his products just to earn money and not care about what his customers would find out when they reach their homes and tries them out. He saw to it that all his products are worth his customers ever penny and that they would really make use of them. The Quantum Leap Advantage Mega Pack has Dan Penas Your First 100 Million Book 2nd Edition which is considered to be the Bible in the business world as it teaches you the different ropes on how to be successful fast. The QLA Mega Pack also has Dan Penas Classic Collection of all his recorded seminars in London and the United States and teaches you the different ways on how to raise your capital and fund your dreams. These guides will teach you how to create a deal flow and how to close deals and acquisitions the easiest way.

I learned in his Quantum Leap Advantage Methodology Mega Pack that people with high performance levels are those that start serious with their jobs even from the start and that to be able to make it BIG in the business, one should always think BIG as well.
Before, I was so afraid to pursue my dreams thinking that nothing would happen to me and fearing that I might get rejected by my customers. I only thought that to be able to be successful in the business, you have to put out all the money that you can and pay even the trust that your customer is giving you. Now, I have proven that success really comes from hard work and that you have to treat your customers right as they become your partners for life.

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Mccoy Cookie Jar

Mccoy pottery companies are most prolific pottery companies of the 20th century, mccoy cookie jar are the great production of mccoy pottery companies. There are number of designs and structure in mccoy cookie jar in different attractive and gorgeous colors. Mccoy cookie jar is traditionally used as a present or a gift and decorative piece and as well as for keeping cookies and other food stuff of human beings and pet animals. Mostly parents might encourage their kids to get their hand stuck in the cookie jar.
Designs and styles of mccoy cookie jar

There are number of designs and styles of mccoy cookie jar, the beauty of cookie jars is their design and craft that they have. Some of mccoy cookie jars are like mccoy owl jar have a complete look like a owl, mccoy flower basket cookie jar that have shape like a basket having flowers in it, mccoy apple basket cookie jar that have shape like a basket having apples in it, mccoy cherry cookie jar that have look like cherry and the green tip of cherry is the opener of cookie jar, and many other styles and designs are available in market but the most popular type and design of mccoy cookie jar is the mummy cookie jar that shows the initial traditional design of mccoy cookie jar.
Colors of mccoy cookie jar

As in the above paragraph I explained you about the different styles shapes and design of mccoy cookie jar that have structure like any entity. Color of the mccoy cookie jar depends upon the structure as if cookie jar is of cherry shape then it must have a red color similarly if jar is in shape of apple basket then its color will be red on apple and brown on basket. Like this all kind of mccoy cookie jars have color of according to their design.
Mccoy cookie jar is a great decorative piece

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Relationship Goals Involve WHAT!?

How are your relationships working for you?

When it comes to relationship goals, here we find some of the most intricate challenges. Unlike most of your goals which involve yourself and inanimate objects or subjects such as your living quarters, your career, your money, your material items such as cars, clothes, your education, etc., relationship goals involve (shhhhh) other people.

We can’t control other people and we can’t set goals for other people. Horrors, what’s a person to do?!

I have this little rock that sits on my desk and written on it are the words “everything is a mirror”. Huh? Simply said, it means that everything you say and do in your interactions with others is reflected back at you by the behavior and actions of those people. Even the thoughts you think about them reflect back to you something about yourself.

Let’s add another level. All those other goals you have on your attraction list will have something to do with other people at one time or another. Yikes, does that mean relationship goals rank very high on the list of importance? You bet your sweet dropped jaw it does!

So, once again, how are your relationships working for you? And this means the clerk at the till in the supermarket to the car salesman to the person asking for a dollar to eat, to your children, to their teacher, to your significant other and on and on. Every person you interact with has a relationship with you. Here’s a not too well kept secret… you get back what you give.

I don’t care what kind of a day you are having, if you want a smile, a hug, some understanding or a “white sport coat and a pink carnation” (remember that song??), first ya gotta give one! Now, I don’t know where you are gonna dig up that white sport coat, but pink carnations are a-plenty. You know that I wasn’t literal on the coat and the flower, but it is a symbol.

 

A Taker you can’t be, if not a Giver first, you see

 
That being said, I will now share with you some not so new, but tried and true (Sheesh, the poet IS coming out in me today!) keys to better relationships whether they be for a lifetime or a few moments.

 

Praise. Yes, there is nothing like sincere praise to puff out a chest or cause a blush. Both signs of a great feeling. You are forever linked to that emotion in that person’s mind. DB never fails to thank me and praise my dinner making efforts, even if it’s a Lean Cuisine once in a while! Do you think I don’t make some extra effort in that preparation knowing his appreciation? Does a blind raise!

Feel, Felt, Found: This response to complaining or whining, whether at home or at work, sets the complainers mind to think and their mouth to still. eg: Complainer: “Dad, you never let me have the car! I really need to go to Jerry’s”. Response: “Son, I know how you feel, I felt the same way when my dad set boundaries on my use of his car, but I found that when I really thought about it I really did have lots of time with the car, I just needed to plan a bit better around the allotted times I could use it.” You can have a lot of fun with this one and a good imagination.

I acknowledge: People just really need to know that you have heard them whether you agree or not. Once they have stated their position, if you disagree, respond with ” I acknowledge your position, my position is……… Don’t replace the word ‘acknowledge’ with ‘understand’, but you can play with the words a bit. eg: “I acknowledge what you just said, it does have merit, now my position is……..”

 

Have some fun with these today. Give what you want to get, and above all, s-m-i-l-e!
 

Make it a goal. 

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10 Keys for a Great Relationship

1. Faith: There’s a great quote about love that goes, “Love is born of faith, lives on hope, and dies of charity.” Love begins with faith. It’s not religious faith necessarily, though it’s a kind of faith about finding someone to believe in, a true partner, someone who will be there through good times and bad. Without faith, there can be no love. It dies.

2. Freedom: There’s another saying of indeterminate origin that love is freedom. Certainly, love cannot be forced, coerced, or negotiated. This, in turn, leads to the next item here.

3. Attraction: Certainly, there’s something to be said for aggressively pursuing a romantic interest and wooing them. But it’s also something to be noted when love happens organically, over a natural period time, the result of two individuals coming together for whatever reason. Sometimes they share interests, other times they’re opposites that complement their needs, though whatever the case, they find each other.

4. Compatibility: Whether opposites or seemingly twins separated at birth, romantic partners need chemistry in order for their relationship to last. If they clash too often or can’t naturally offer things to meet each other’s needs, their chances are distant at best.

5. Acceptance: Good couples are often naturally on the same page about a lot of things, everything from how quickly the relationship should proceed to what they need from one another. That being said, nothing’s perfect, and in any relationship, there will be things people just have to expect. Maybe it’s a guy knowing his girlfriend sometimes doesn’t return calls for hours on end. Maybe it’s a girl knowing her boyfriend sometimes belches at the dinner table.

6. Understanding: The following scenario may be familiar to any guy. His girlfriend comes home upset after a long day of work, needing to talk about a problem. As she begins to unfold her story, it becomes increasingly tempting to give advice. Chances are, she’d rather her boyfriend just listen. The key is to try to understand whatever she’s going through. Just doing this is a way of offering invaluable support.

7. Communication: Good couples have open and active lines of communication. They’re able to be sounding boards for each other, conversationalists, and problem solvers. They keep issues from blowing out of proportion.

8. Therapy: This may sound like some new-age trend from California where things like San Francisco couples therapy and Los Angeles marriage counseling attract an almost cultish fervor, reserved strictly for weirdos and weaklings and people with toxic, terminal relationships. In reality, lots of perfectly healthy couples seek therapy early in their time together to address any issues that may stand in the way of their happiness.

9. Balance: In all the years they were married, Paul and Linda McCartney spent 11 days apart. This may well be some kind of bizarre feat of endurance. Most couples need a balance of time together and time apart, lest unhealthy levels of attachment and dependencies grow.

10. Respect: A healthy relationship is not about dominance or dependence. It’s about finding one’s equal, someone on the same level. In any good relationship, mutual respect is a hallmark.

 

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Prepared Broken Heart Quotes For Him And Her

Circumstances in life aren’t persistent. Things happen differently from time to time where there are the good and bad times. Now while being in love or possessing a cherished one happens to be part of what makes a person joyful, possessing a broken heart however also happens that can serve as a lesson to get a even better relationship from now on. In contrast, broken heart quotes are products of the words of wisdom brought about by life’s ordeals. Although one’s heart has been shattered, these rewarding and inspiring broken heart quotes will still serve as calming messages to appreciate what is happening and how things can get better sooner or later.

Broken Heart Quotes For Him And Her: If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don’t, they never were. ~Khalil Gibran; Love and doubt have never been on speaking terms.” And when you start losing trust on your love, then is when the first crack appears in a relationship. If you can’t trust you partner, happiness is gone forever. ~Khalil Gibran; There is love of course. And then there’s life, its enemy. ~Jean Anouih

Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there. ~Otomo No Yakamochi; Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop. ~Author Unknown; The hottest love has the coldest end. ~Socrates; Time goes by, life goes on, and all I can think of is why you’re gone. ~Author Unknown; True love never dies as we see in our eyes, only when we let go that we can truly say goodbye. ~Unknown Author

Real loss only occurs when you lose something that you love more than yourself. ~Author Uknown; Faults are thick where love is thin. ~English Proverb; Without love, what are we worth? Eighty-nine cents! Eighty-nine cents worth of chemicals walking around lonely. ~Hawkeye; Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is. ~Diane Ackerman; The greatest weakness of most humans is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them while they’re still alive. ~Orlando Battista

The risk it takes to remain tight inside the bud is more painful than the risk it takes to blossom. ~Anais Nin; I’d like to run away from you, But if you didn’t come And find me – I would die. ~Dame Shirley Bassey; The course of true love never did run smooth. ~William Shakespeare; Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another’s heart, or its flame burns low. ~Henry Ward Beecher

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Business Sales Close Plan – Milestones to Close the Deal

Being with my feet on the sales ground for 25 years in IT, I can recommend that many steps in the sales process need to be discussed and agreed internally and with the business customer to come to an agreed and signed contract.

Following this sales process through a so called ‘Sales Close Plan’, describes all the necessary milestones that need to be agreed from a resource perspective, internally from a supplier perspective as well as from the business customer resource perspective. This Sales Close Plan will enable you to set upfront the right expectations during the contract negotiation milestones during an enterprise sales process.

Discuss with your business customer the close plan and have your customer sign/off the Sales Close Plan on timescales and milestones. If each milestone is finalized confirm this in email to your customer so all expectations and potential road blocks keeps transparent and visible to you as supplier and business customer.

1. Identify the Power Sponsors:

Which customer contacts have the power to approve or veto a major contract deal?
Who are the business owners?

2. Identify customer procurement process:

Send Non Disclosure for approval.
Perform Customer due diligence and screening.
Is supplier employee screening process required?
What are customer standard terms & conditions?
What are the expected legal challenges? Intellectual property, Warranty…?
What are the payment terms?
What is the VAT number?
What are the shipping address details?
What are the billing address details?
Discover expense costs cap guidelines.
What is the business identity code?
Will payment be in Dollars/Euro…?
What are the finance contact details?
Which legal resources are required from supplier, internally, externally?

3. Approval process:

Who needs to approve from the IT department?
Who needs to give approval from the business department?
Is budget available? If not when?
Is Board approval required to close the deal? I yes, when is next Board meeting
Which person from the Board supports business case?
Do we need a reference visit and who will attend from the customer?
Which reference do we nominate for site visit or phone interview?
Agree on travel arrangements for reference visit.

4. Feedback 1st round legal/proposal discussions:

Does the commercials/T&C’s in the proposal need to be updated to get a deal?
If yes, which resources from supplier and customer are required?
Do we need internal approval from higher management for this?
Is customer requesting any legal adjustments that need further legal review by supplier?

5. Send new proposal/T&C’s contracts:

Agree date for presentation final proposal to customer.
Is customer verbally accepting new proposal/T&C’s?

6. Contracts:

When will customer sign/off contracts?
When can signed contracts be collected at customer?
Reconfirm resources allocation.
Start of project or delivery.

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The Zen of Love – Learning to Be Naked in Beautiful Relationships

When we take off our  physical clothes, what is left is bare skin, and it can be cold or too exposed. Taking off our “mind clothes” is far more confronting.

Who are you when you are not your money, your success, your religious idealism? Who are you without your values, your identity and personality? Can you just be connected to your soul?

To be empty is a really important gift. To be empty we are not the mother, brother, sister, auntie, cousin, leader, partner, male or female. To be empty we are not old or young, happy or sad, healthy or not. To be empty we are not impressive or impressed. We want nothing, need nothing and therefore we have everything.

Two lovers who sit with each other in emptiness will find movement. Emptiness is not always static. But any movement that comes in emptiness is without motive. We don’t want to make our partner happy, nor do we want to make them sad, there simply is no wanting.

If you have not practiced Zen for the last five years then this practice might help you and your partner to find happiness. Sit face to face with your partner in front of you. Close your eyes and feel their real essence. Take anything you like about them or dislike about them and find it in yourself. Look with your heart, ears, nose, mouth and hands.

When there is no longer separation between you and your partner listen for their breathing and copy it. Breathe together with their rhythm, and avoid the urge to change anything.

When there is no more awareness of them as a separate being, you are ready to explore the inner reaches of love together.

At this time, don’t be afraid to reach out and touch the beauty of their essence, it is in their skin and even their hair. But you are not touching to give pleasure or feel pleasure. You are simply feeling the connection, almost like touching a mirror.

Breathe the connection in with each breath and let it move you.

Eventually, when you find the connection, you may open your eyes but never look into your partner’s eyes. This triggers the physical separation and can only be practiced without ego after some further experience.

Remain empty.

When we meditate on a rose, the meditation is not complete until there is no rose. We become that rose, we just be empty until we merge with it, and then we can touch the rose as if we are touching the mirror. There is no sense of rose, no smell of rose, but we use the touch of rose, and the smell of rose to cause our focus. Eventually, those things of the ego vanish, we merge.

While I say, “I am doing Zen” I am not. While I say “I am making love” I am not. While I say, “you are the object of beauty for me” you are not. There is no doing. There is no meditation. While we meditate we are not meditating.

While we work we are not working. While we are happy, we are not happy. The very awareness of happiness kills it. The very awareness of work spoils it. The doing  of love, is poison to it. These things we cannot do, we can only be.

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Are You Hanging in Job Search Cyberspace Limbo?

You follow instructions completing online applications, faxing resumes, emailing resumes, and you never hear a word. It is frustrating and even depressing submitting resumes and getting no responses. Unfortunately, technology has the potential to make you feel like your job search is completely impersonal. You may feel lost in cyberspace. The media has even recently been reporting about people who have simply given up the job search in despair.

The following efforts not only increase your chances with an employer but they also prevent you from feeling a loss of control over your job search. Feeling powerless breeds a negative attitude. Your projection of a positive attitude when meeting with employers is so crucial that it can make or break your employment potential.

First, ensure you are submitting the correct type of resume. For uploading to websites, you need to use a plain text version or ASCII which does not have any formatting. You also need to be sure that industry specific major keywords are in the electronic resume, because it will likely be scanned by software that screens out resumes lacking certain keywords. For email, you should use the formatted resume and it must be designed to have impact and have proof that you offer value to a potential employer. You also need to include a knock-out cover letter that does more than just repeat exactly what is on the resume.

After you have completed the online application process, you always need to follow up with a phone call. Company websites usually list a phone number and sometimes they list a human resources name. If not, try the company’s social media websites like Facebook for information or Google the company’s name. Ultimately, your goal should be to reach the “hiring manager” for the department where you have applied. This may not be the same person as the human resources name on the website. If you can’t get past the “gatekeeper” who answers the phone, ask for the hiring manager’s name and email address and send an email if possible.

What do you say? Introduce yourself and state how you applied for employment and when you applied and that you are following up on your application. Ask to schedule a time when you may meet with the employer to discuss how you can add value to his or her company. Taking the initiative to follow up demonstrates your genuine interest in the employer and may give you an advantage over other applicants who do not follow up. However, do not make a pest of yourself calling several times a day every day or you may be crossing yourself off the list of applicants.

I have heard of applicants using other creative methods of getting through to the hiring authority such as showing up with or sending a box of donuts in the morning with a card, courtesy of the applicant. If you do employ a creative method, be careful about whether the manner you choose is appropriate for the industry and the company. For example, though an oversized comical card might be well received in the entertainment business, it would not be suitable for a business executive position.

Following up with employers is also very important after an interview. You should immediately snail-mail a thank you card to each interviewer with a few handwritten sentences thanking them for their time and restating how you could add value to their business. (One way of ensuring you remember all the names of the interviewers is to ask for business cards from each person at the interview.) Once again, this act shows interest and thoughtfulness, putting your name back in front of the hiring personnel one more time. It is also acceptable to follow up a week or so later with a phone call asking if a decision has been reached.

Don’t resign yourself to an online-only job search. You are more than an electronic submission, and you need to graciously let employers know it through your actions! Not only can you set yourself apart from other applicants, you can retain your power over your career future as well.

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Questions to Ask Yourself in Your Relationship

Relationships are hard work, even in the best circumstances. Often times when things get tough or your relationship hits a rough patch, it’s easy to look at your partner as the source of the problems in the relationship. Analyzing reasons why your relationship issues are your partner’s problem is much easier than looking into yourself to determine why things might be getting tough. However, sometimes asking yourself hard, important questions about your own attitude and motivations in the relationship is the first step to putting things back together.

Are you trying to make it work?
Being honest with yourself about if you are really trying to make the relationship work is important to figuring out if you should stay in the relationship or not. Sometimes it’s easy to think that we are doing everything we can and the other person just isn’t cooperating, but if you are subconsciously checked out of the relationship, then it’s possible you aren’t trying to make it work intentionally.

How often do you let outside factors influence your relationship?
In today’s busy world, sometimes it’s not you and your partner at all that are creating tension, but the outside world. With work, kids, friends, activities, and household chores all piling up and needing your attention, it’s no wonder that we let our frustration loose on the person we are most comfortable with, our partner. Be truthful with yourself about how much you’re allowing outside factors affect interaction with your partner and then remove those factors or simply be aware of how they impact your mood.

What are your anger triggers?
We all have things that trigger anger within us. If you are aware of what those things are, you can remove yourself from situations where those things may occur. If one of your anger triggers comes from something your partner does, then you should sit down with them and discuss it. If you can’t come to an agreement on how to handle the situation, then perhaps it is time to move on.

Are you in the relationship for the right reasons?
Ask yourself why you are really in the relationship. The answer may surprise you. Are you in the relationship because you feel as though you make each other the best version of yourselves, or are you in it because you are afraid of being alone? Perhaps you are in it for financial or other surface-level reasons. Either way, you need to make sure you are in the relationship for the right reasons before you make decisions about how to proceed. If you are giving as much as you are getting from the relationship and vice versa, then chances are you are in it for the right reasons.

Answering these questions honestly can help you start to see why things in your relationship have taken a wrong turn. Looking into yourself and being open and honest with your partner about how you feel can help you either repair what’s broken or move on from the relationship knowing that you are doing it for the right reasons.

 

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Phases in Divorce

Divorce is not only a legal technicality. Besides legal formalities, there are also emotional episodes to come through. Being sad when a marriage ends is natural. Although it’s painful, grief is a healthy emotional response to the loss of an important relationship. We are hardwired to feel it, and it wouldn’t be reasonable to expect otherwise. While sorrow and grief can be very hard to handle, most people do understand and accept the inevitability of these feelings.

Divorce can be expensive. Before you ever meet with an attorney, discuss the pros and cons and decide how to get divorced first. Take time to prepare relevant divorce information about protecting assets in divorce, clearing debts, matrimonial assets and ongoing financial obligations. Your attorney will need a number of documents before he or she can take action, but by collecting this information in advance you can reduce the time and expense of divorce. Among other things, you should bring current utility bills, documents relating to your mortgage, tax records, bank statements, vehicle titles, retirement documents and investment records.

Premarital asset protection includes prenuptial agreement. Prenuptial agreement is the agreement that speaks about the financial dealings when a couple is sure about their marriage separation. The divorce courts in states accepting prenuptial agreements will uphold the contract if the agreement is fair and includes all relevant information about assets. If the court believes that one party was forces to enter into the agreement under duress or coercion, the prenup will be thrown out. Prenuptial agreements may be challenged for a number of reasons, including concealment of assets, fraud and coercion. In some cases, the divorce court may presume that one spouse intentionally concealed assets if the prenuptial agreement is grossly disproportionate.

This documentation will allow your attorney to take immediate action in retaining assets and develop a broad outlook regarding the fair division of marital assets. Call your attorney’s office to ask what specific documents they require and if they have any forms for you to complete prior to the meeting. Couples who have filed for divorce by mutual consent must wait for a minimum period of six months. This is called the Divorce waiting period. The divorce waiting period varies from state to state.

The postnuptial agreement comes into existence only when the couples have undergone serious changes in financial circumstances. This agreement typically includes debts, assets, income and expected monetary gain in the future.

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Dating Relationships Statistics

Dating is one of the most anticipated events in the life of most men and women Diabetes Destroyed PDF. This anticipation starts during the teenage years when one becomes conscious about the presence of the opposite sex. The fascination for dating never wanes in adulthood, as the search for the perfect partner continues even after the lapse of the reproductive phase.

Dating is the process men and women willingly undergo to find their life partner. However, it should not be a thoughtless process where one should date every person in sight. As time is a precious commodity, it should be invested wisely and not be wasted to somebody that is wrong for you.

Both men and women have ideas on what they want when dating. These ideas have been shared by millions of people in varying degrees.

However, all these dating concepts and aspirations boil down to the fact that people in general want to be with someone extraordinary, and that extraordinary someone will be willing to spend a lifetime to make a dream a reality.

Although the goal is but a basic human nature, the road to find this one person is not always a walk in the park. Some may spend years before finding this one extraordinary person. Others will spend a lifetime without finding that special someone.

The concept of the extraordinary person seems vague, so scientists and statisticians conducted experiments and surveys to describe who this extraordinary person is.
Shall we look at some dating relationship statistics?

According to several studies made, it is not the women with thin waist or the man with the broad shoulders that usually attracts a potential partner. It is surprising that in most cases, this extraordinary person is but the Average Joe or the Average Jane. Physical attributes is merely, a plus for many people. However, both men and women prefer life partners who like them, live with love handles or a thinning hairline.

From several studies and experiments, it was found out that what transforms a person into somebody extraordinary is mainly his personality. Both men and women prefer to date somebody with a bubbly personality.

The ‘cougar woman’ may be a common phrase nowadays, thanks to Demi Moore, Jennifer Lopez and other celebrities who prefer to date younger men. This phenomenon proves the fact that an older woman can still snatch the man, provided she is more alluring than the younger competitor.

It has also been found out that people in general look for a life partner that mirrors them. There is preference to life partners with same interests, hobbies and values. Thus, if given a choice between an educated Plain Jane and a drop dead gorgeous woman with no brain, men prefers the former for a life partner as they want to be with somebody that can sustain a conversation, and therefore sustain a healthy relationship.

Although not all who thought they found that one extraordinary person who can complete his life end up marrying that person, it makes sense to try and test the waters. After all, no one ever gets to catch a tuna in a pool of goldfish.

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While it is true that advances in technology and automation made housework and many other activities of daily life easier – people seem to be busier than ever.  The modern world became the era of over-booked work calendars, ringing and beeping cell phones and drive-thru food bites. In these times of impelled motion towards progress, individuals should regress a bit, stop, and learn to send Say it with Style egreetings if they cannot pay personal visits to their loved ones.  

 

If you are one of those “crazy busy” people, consider using the internet instead to reconnect with the people you love.  Time is short.  Do not let your work and career get between you and your family and friends.  You can always connect with them just to say hi with a stylish ecard.  You can make them know that in spite of your success and your heavy workloads; you remember and value your family and friends.  It will not take a few moments to send thank you cards online. The gesture will not only make the recipient of your egreetings cheerful, it will loosen you up and de-stress your life because while you are sending your egreetings and thank you cards, you will surely smile in fond remembrance of happy times.

 

Decades ago, people lived serene, relaxed lives -writing letters, calling on neighbors for tea, visiting friends and family on weekends and just enjoying nature’s blessings and the beauty of the countryside.  People in today’s global corporate world cannot do most of these things anymore; but individuals can always just say hi with a stylish ecard and bring back fond remembrance of people they have lost contact with because of distance or because of work schedules. 

 

The modern world in many metropolitan cities is exemplified by individuals that are so energetic but also living lives that are so hectic.  People bustle about as if there is no tomorrow, driven by the demands of commerce and industry with no time to relax and to personally connect with families.  While it is true that infrastructure and transportation made travelling easier and communications easier, these same developments made individuals more accessible to the daily demands of their offices, work and industry. Globalization means that people work 24/7.  While New Yorkers and Londoners are supposed to be asleep, Asians and South American offices are still open and might want to talk about pressing problems.

 

A cell phone may ring while a child is blowing the 7 candles on her birthday cake, bringing news or things that require immediate attention.  It is not a rare occurrence that the modern parent, uncle or a grandparent wants to throw away that wondrous new gadget out the window. With this thought in mind, peers in the corporate world should remember their colleagues by sending corporate cards. The gesture will help cement professional relationships and yet lend the business relationship a more personal flavor.

 

Whatever your role is in this hectic, harried pace we call our modern existence, you should remember that there are also ultra modern ways and means to connect with loved ones or with peers and associates.  Do not forget to take the time to just say hi with a stylish ecard.  You can send egreetings, thank you cards, Christmas ecards and corporate cards and all types of electronic cards with excellent graphics and personal messages that modern technologies make possible.

 

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Girl Questions

Congratulations! You’ve made it past the hardest part… asking a girl out on a date. And if you’re reading this, then she has agreed. Now it’s come time to head out on this date of yours and try to get to know each other a little better and possibly get her to like you. If you’re ever been on dates before, you know that it can be very nerve wracking to come up with ways to keep the conversation rolling. Here are a few great questions that you can ask that are guaranteed to get you a second date… Ask her about her family. Don’t ask simple questions like how many brothers and sisters do you have, but instead ask deeper and more thought provoking questions. Asking her what her favorite childhood memory is a good one. Perhaps asking her about which one she gets along better with, her dad or brother. Girl Questions ask a girl at first is whether she is local and where she works, what she does for a living. A nice easy opener this one and an easy opportunity for her to talk confidently back to you. Remember to offer similar information back about yourself, and in the case that she doesn’t actually ask you too, volunteer the information anyway. Asking about favorites is another cool thing to do. Favorite actors, films, books, singers, bands etc. The reason it is cool is that again it allows her to talk back to you confidently and if you respond with similar information, you are both building a picture up of each other, building rapport with one another and will soon know if the relationship is one which you would both like to develop. The best way to get someone into is to have commonalities with them, or at least pretend to. What do you like to do with your weekends? This is a fairly self explanatory question, which you can alter. If a girl has talked about her weekends on her profile page, ask her something that interested you or a related activity. This is a very safe question that can be a fun way to find common ground it is a great “break the ice” starter question to ask a girl online. What do you think the biggest mistakes men make with online dating? This question should be done in a fun manner with a girl and should lead for some good banter between the two of you. It is a great way to separate yourself from other guys in a girls mind. It will make her think you have a different mindset to other men, which will create attraction. What is your real opinion about online dating? Once again this should be asked in good fun and a light hearted nature. The idea being to ask questions that could lead to some fun and interesting conversations. While also working as a hidden serious question. You should pay close attention to her answers here as she will be giving insight to previous good and bad experiences. Plus giving clues to her likes and dislikes. As previously stated these questions are not set in stone and can be changed. In fact, they should be altered slightly to suit your personality and different situations. One of the worst things a man can do is learn a bunch of lines and questions not suited to their style and throw them at women. You should learn the process of what actually creates attraction with women and avoid unattractive behavior that turns women of. Learn how to do this and you will be turning more women away from you than you can keep count of.

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Relationship Advertising

Relationship Advertising

The connection online marketing strategy created in the immediate reaction advertising strategies well-liked within the sixties, 1970’s as well as 80’s. These types of strategies stressed the significance associated with client preservation as well as ongoing client satisfaction, instead of a good increased exposure of person dealings, as well as per-case client quality.

What’s Relationship Advertising?

Relationship advertising is actually a kind of proper advertising which focuses on it is target audience with increased immediate home elevators the particular services and products a person might have curiosity about. This varies through other styles associated with advertising for the reason that this looks for in order to keep clients because they build associations together, rather than immediate or even invasive technique, that targets purchase associated with new business through focusing on vast majority demographics, based on possibility listings bought through 3rd party resources.

Because conventional advertising became popular within the sixties as well as 1970’s, businesses discovered this harder to market customer items. The initial design experienced progressed into something, that centered on promoting fairly low-value items within bulk amounts to some greater amount of customers. Because the start of present day advertising systems, numerous techniques happen to be created so that they can expand it’s range. Relationship advertising increased from this period, and it is one of these of the make an effort to increase the actual achieve as well as applicability associated with advertising.

To put it simply, Relationship advertising targets focusing on the connection associated with organization in order to client. For those who have a current client bottom, it seems sensible to understand exactly what these types of clients such as regarding your own services and products as well as the way you like a organization may enhance about this. Should you construct about the great associations a person curently have together with your clients, as well as produce client devotion, this really is much more useful compared to placing power in the direction of usually trying to obtain start up business.

Protective Advertising versus. Unpleasant Advertising

Relationship advertising could be recognized within easy football-like conditions associated with unpleasant as well as protective methods. “Defensive” advertising as well as “offensive” advertising tend to be conditions which were coined through D. Fornell as well as W. Wernerfelt within 1987.

Protective advertising explains efforts to lessen client turnover, improve client devotion as well as support the client bottom currently in position, through maintaining all of them pleased with your own support, as well as thinking about your own items. In comparison, unpleasant advertising looks for to acquire new clients as well as improve buy rate of recurrence. Protective advertising targets decreasing, or even much better controlling client discontentment, whilst unpleasant advertising targets “liberating” not satisfied clients through rivals as well as shifting all of them to the unpleasant marketer’s client bottom basically obtaining clients to change groups.

Client & Customer Associations

Relationship advertising is really a crucial collaborative technique to keep clients. It’s basically a good offshoot associated with client as well as customer Relationship administration. The idea is actually this particular; bringing in new clients is actually more expensive, however much less lucrative compared to building current customer devotion. Through building as well as advertising your own current clientele via investigation as well as an awareness, you’ll produce a faithful clientele with regard to a long time, along with much less cost as well as greater results. Creating enduring associations using the customers a person curently have is really a formula with regard to long-term advertising achievement.

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Rebound Relationship

A person who is newly freelance once a break up is usually vulnerable to obtaining into a rebound relationship with a new partner. When a significant relationship ends, it will leave an enormous emotional gap that screams to be filled. Because you’re still being strongly stricken by feelings from the previous relationship, you can not forever choose things as clearly as you should.
A rebound relationship is often based on feelings that haven’t settled from the upset of ending the former relationship. This could lead to rushing into one thing you’ll regret later.
Getting into into a relationship too quickly once an occasion up will end up hurting each of the new partners. If you think that that you may be on the rebound, you ought to have a look at what you think that of during a mean day. If you are still dwelling on the previous relationship and talking regarding it to friends instead of focusing on your new relationship, this could be a warning sign. Experiencing feelings of anger and hurt after a clear stage up is traditional, but if you’re still focusing on it when you’re alone, you will be on the rebound.
Likewise, if your new partner seems to be distracted by a former relationship, you ought to consider whether or not they have jumped into a relationship with you too quickly. Look out for warning signs from them simply as you would for yourself. If you’re involved, raise them how long it’s been since they were in an exceedingly serious relationship. You’ll be delicate about this of course. Notice if they are hanging on to items from a past relationship or if they mention their past relationships too often. Talking concerning your past is normal. Dwelling on it can be a problem and will not facilitate anyone.
If you’re thinking that that you’ll be in relationship based mostly on a rebound, you are doing not have to relinquish up on it entirely. It could figure out fine. You ought to specific your concern to your partner within the interest of honesty and take into account taking things a little bit slower thus that you’ll be able to each be sure that you’re using your best judgment and thinking with clear thoughts. The ending of an recent relationship and the beginning of a new relationship are very emotionally charged times. Bringing them too close along while not some restraint will cause problems down the line. It’s usually wise to take things slowly when an occasion up and obtain your feet beneath you before moving forward.

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Relationship Repair

Repairing relationship requires much time and real endeavors to be fruitful erase herpes pdf. That’s why not everyone can succeed in healing relationship wounds easily. Luckily, recovering relationship with your Ex is not desperate but it’s not the task that you can complete alone and quickly. Deep reasons for your break-up will determine what proper measures for you to follow are.

 

So you should begin with finding the cause of the break down. You may find that a lot of small things have contributed to the break up. It is much easier to fix one big problem. But fixing several small things will require a lot of effort and patience. In either case, you need to put in the efforts, if you are keen on healing relationship wounds.

 

After figuring out what went wrong, you should honestly examine your own role and the extent of your contribution to the break up. This will be a hard task for many people because no one likes to admit his or her mistakes. Even if you know that you have done a wrong, you may believe that the other person provoked you. But if your focus is on fixing things, you should not hesitate to own up your mistakes irrespective of what or who might have led you to commit them. Please remember you need to be not just honest, but brutally honest in evaluating yourself, if you have to zoom in on the real factors that caused the breaking up of the relationship.

 

It is not only actions but also words that might have played a big a role in a broken relationship. Words are as powerful as and sometimes more powerful than actions. It is well known that words can inflict deep wounds, which are difficult to heal.

 

The next thing is to decide what you need to do to fix the problems and commit yourself to investing the time required to work on this task. Healing relationship wounds will invariably involve changing your behavior. If you are not willing to accept this change, you may as well give up your efforts!

 

But whatever you do will have no effect unless your partner is also willing to work on the relationship. If you are not both committed to making it work, it is better to abandon the idea of healing relationship wounds and accept the break up as final.

 

You also need to be aware that even after you save your relationship, the scars left by the break up will remain for a long time and you both should accept this fact. But you can still make your life memorable by loving each other sincerely, with no expectations or conditions.

 

Keep these things in mind when you are healing relationship wounds. If your relationship is truly worth saving, and your partner is willing to meet you half way and work on it, you can fix the relationship and even make it better than it was before.

Rebound Relationship

A person who is newly independent after a break up is often vulnerable to getting into a m3 system free rebound relationship with a new partner.  When a serious relationship ends, it can leave a huge emotional gap that screams to be filled.  Because you are still being strongly affected by feelings from the prior relationship, you cannot always judge things as clearly as you should.  A rebound relationship is often based on feelings that have not settled from the upset of ending the former relationship.  This can lead to rushing into something you will regret later.

Entering into a relationship too quickly after a break up can end up hurting both of the new partners.  If you think that you may be on the rebound, you should take a look at what you think of during an average day.  If you are still dwelling on the previous relationship and talking about it to friends instead of focusing on your new relationship, this could be a warning sign.  Experiencing feelings of anger and hurt after a break up is normal, but if you are still focusing on it when you are alone, you may be on the rebound.

Likewise, if your new partner seems to be distracted by a former relationship, you should consider whether or not they have jumped into a relationship with you too quickly.  Look out for warning signs from them just as you would for yourself.  If you are concerned, ask them how long it has been since they were in a serious relationship.  You can be subtle about this of course.  Notice if they are hanging on to items from a past relationship or if they mention their past relationships too often.  Talking about your past is normal.  Dwelling on it can be an issue and does not help anyone.

If you think that you may be in relationship based on a rebound, you do not have to give up on it entirely.  It may work out fine.  You should express your concern to your partner in the interest of honesty and consider taking things a little bit slower so that you can both be sure that you are using your best judgment and thinking with clear thoughts.  The ending of an old relationship and the beginning of a new relationship are very emotionally charged times.  Bringing them too close together without some restraint can cause problems down the line.  It is often wise to take things slowly after a break up and get your feet under you before moving forward.

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Relationship Breakup

In most studies on stress, it has shown that a divorce ranks even higher on a stress scale than losing a loved one, or the yeast infection no more pdf free of a friend.  Most people don’t know how to properly go through a relationship breakup.

The breaking up and end of most relationships will always be painful, and stressful.  Even if it’s one that needs to end and is not healthy to be in.  You’ve spent a lot of time and emotion with your partner, and even if you’re the one ending it, this still comes with a lot of hurt feelings.

Obviously, it can be even worse if you’re the one being dumped.  Any relationship breakup that you don’t want to end or even expected to happen can be very painful to go through.  What you have to keep in mind is that a relationship needs two consenting people that wish to be in it.  You may want it to go on, but if your partner has decided to call it quits, you may have to consider the fact that your relationship needs to end.

There is help though.

Here are some techniques that can be used to ease the pain of almost any relationship breakup.  There is several methods to outline here that have been proven to relieve the stress of a broken heart and ease the pain as you move past the hurt.

Step One: Figure Out Why – You need to know the core reasons why your relationship has ended.  This doesn’t matter if you were the one breaking up or the one being broken up with.  Either way you need to realize, understand, or even figure out what the reasons are for the breakup.
Step Two: Get Rid of Reminders - You need space and time between you and your partner that you have just ended it with, or been dumped by.  No going to bed each night hanging onto your ex’s old belongings or staring at their old photos.  You need to clean house and eliminate your space and mind of your ex entirely.  Not permanently, but just remove them out of sight and determine later if these items should be removed for good. It’s important and healthy to make a clean break, so you need to put all those little reminders away!
Step Three: Positive People –  If you’ve just been involved in a relationship breakup, it’s time to get out of the negative place you’re naturally going to find yourself in, and start surrounding yourself with positive places, people, and things.  There are negative people in the world, and then there are positive people in the world.  You know who they are.  So go out and find them so that you can spend as much time as you can being around them and in a positive environment.  This combination with the previous two steps, puts you in the beginning of being in the right place to move on.
Step Four: Start Dating Again - The final step that is probably the most important one for you to start recovering from a relationship break up, is to start dating other people.  Before you panic and start shouting that you don’t want anyone else, that it’s your ex you only want, and no one else… the important thing to remember about this step is that you’re not trying to replace your ex.  You’re merely trying to start seeing things in a new perspective without them.  A date can be a friendly social thing and not a love interest.  Meeting new people does not have to be about rebounding to a new love interest.  It is only about being able to move on and see other folks.

Don’t look at every date as a potential love interest.  Just look at the dating new folks as a chance to get your mojo back, and relieve some of that stress. Have fun and take a chance!  You might actually find some new and interesting people to have fun with or even more…

The four steps outlined here will have you mending the pain over your relationship breakup in no time flat. But keep in mind; you don’t necessarily have to get over a break up. Sometimes good relationships fall apart for the wrong reasons, and you can fix the damage. You just need to find the right plan.

Most couples can find that they are capable of working through any issue and problem with enough love for their partner. When that love starts to turn cold, and love becomes weak… it is not enough to simply work through the issues.

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